Episode 120
#117. SNEAK PEEK: COUPLES LESSON #1: Teaching Kids About Jesus | A Gospel-Centered Parenting Conversation
Raising Children for Christ Starts With the Gospel
Welcome to Again Podcast — because what moms do over and over matters to God.
In this powerful episode, Stephanie Hickox sits down with Betsy and David Corning to talk about the true foundation of Christian parenting: faith in Jesus Christ.
What does it mean to be entrusted with children by God? How can moms faithfully point their children to Jesus in the ordinary, repetitive rhythms of motherhood? And what hope is there for parents who feel like they started too late?
Together, this conversation explores the heart of biblical parenting, discipleship, and salvation—reminding weary moms that their children ultimately belong to the Lord, and that God faithfully works through imperfect parents who depend on Him.
This episode also includes a clear Gospel presentation through the “Bridge Illustration,” walking step-by-step through Scripture to explain:
- Why we were created for relationship with God
- How sin separates us from Him
- Why Jesus Christ is the only way to salvation
- What it means to repent and believe
- How the Gospel transforms motherhood, marriage, and family life
If you’ve ever wondered:
- “Am I failing as a Christian mom?”
- “Is it too late to spiritually lead my family?”
- “How do I point my children to Jesus?”
- “What does faithful motherhood actually look like?”
—this episode offers biblical encouragement, Gospel hope, and practical wisdom for everyday motherhood.
In This Episode:
- What it means to be entrusted with children by God
- Why children ultimately belong to the Lord
- Parenting as stewardship, not ownership
- Encouragement for moms who feel overwhelmed or discouraged
- Why “godly parenting” begins with surrender to Jesus
- Hope for parents who were never discipled themselves
- Why it is never too late to spiritually lead your children
- The power of prayer in motherhood and family life
- The Bridge Gospel Illustration explained simply
- Salvation through grace by faith in Jesus Christ alone
Key Scriptures Mentioned:
- Psalm 127:1
- 3 John 1:4
- 1 Corinthians 3:11
- Genesis 1:27
- Isaiah 59:2
- Romans 3:23
- Romans 6:23
- Hebrews 9:27
- John 5:24
- Ephesians 2:8–9
- John 14:6
- 1 Peter 3:18
- Romans 10:9
- 1 John 5:11–12
- Revelation 3:20
Perfect For:
- Christian moms seeking encouragement
- Biblical parenting conversations
- Moms discipling children at home
- Christian motherhood podcasts
- Families wanting Christ-centered homes
- Women growing in faith while raising children
- Moms learning how to share the Gospel with their kids
If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share Again Podcast with another mom who needs Gospel-centered encouragement today.
Because what moms do over and over matters to God.
Find out more about our favorite parenting study here: Entrusted with a Child's Heart!
Transcript
Welcome to the Again Podcast from Entrusted Ministries.
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:I'm Stephanie Hickox, and I
wanna say congratulations, mama.
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:You made it through another May.
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:Whether you're wrapping up an academic
school year or you've felt cooped
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:inside with babies and toddlers
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:for what feels like forever.
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:I hope that this summer has lots of joy
and relaxation on the horizon for you.
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:Today, I'm giving you a sneak peek into
lesson one of our Entrusted videos.
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:These go along with our book for couples
which has the same principles as the moms'
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:study in Trusted With a Child's Heart.
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:We call it our book for couples, but
really it can be used by individuals,
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:by home groups, church groups,
groups of men, groups of women.
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:There are so many opportunities.
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:I have several friends that actually buy
these books for every baby shower they
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:attend, as they believe it's the most
important parenting book you could own
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:And we recently recorded these videos
because we wanted moms and dads to have
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:videos to guide them through the book.
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:And to gain access to the entire
series, all you have to do is purchase
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:the book, which is reasonably priced
at $20, and then we give you this
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:little bookmark that has the QR code
to stream all the videos for free.
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:We really want to equip and your spouse to
follow God's Word in your parenting, and
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:ultimately, we want people to come to know
the Lord Jesus Christ as their Savior.
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:So we hope today's clear bridge
illustration can equip you
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:for how you can clearly share
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:the gospel with your children and
anyone else God puts in your path
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:, Speaker: Let's talk about chapter
one, our foundation, faith in Jesus.
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:I was rereading Paul Tripp's parenting
book recently, and it's so in line with
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:the heart of Entrusted, and I loved this
quote, "Good parenting, which does what
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:God intended it to do, begins with the
radical and humbling admission that our
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:children don't actually belong to us."
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:Aunt Betsy, can you explain what
does it mean to be entrusted?
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:Speaker 2: I think it means to
understand that your children
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:don't really belong to you.
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:They've been entrusted to you by God,
which, uh, absolutely is an absolute
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:precious and special privilege,
but we don't look at our children
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:as our own in the sense that I get
to do with you whatever I want.
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:Speaker: Mm-hmm.
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:Speaker 2: I get to raise you however I
want, because God has given them to us
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:for a purpose, and that is to fulfill his
purpose of raising true worshipers of God.
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:Speaker: Mm.
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:Speaker 2: Children aren't ours.
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:Uh, they are the Lord's.
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:Speaker: Mm-hmm.
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:Speaker 2: So we're being the
best stewards of them that we can.
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:Speaker: And there's incredible
freedom in that, when we know that
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:we're working with the Lord, onto Him.
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:It's not all on our shoulders, right?
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:Speaker 2: Yes, definitely.
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:So what a relief it is to know
that God's in this with us.
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:Speaker: Mm-hmm.
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:Speaker 2: And when we follow His
ways, you know, He, He honors that.
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:He blesses that.
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:Speaker: You've subtitled every chapter,
"Godly parents do this," and chapter
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:one, it's, "Godly parents embrace
Jesus as their Lord and Savior."
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:Some people might hear that and
feel, "I don't know if I'm worthy
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:of that title, godly parent."
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:Can you explain why you've
chosen those subtitles?
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:Speaker 2: Yeah.
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:It's not really us, ourselves,
that have the capacity to be godly.
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:I mean, we are obedient unto the
Lord, but it's saying that we are
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:declaring our dependence upon Him to
be able to do the things that He's
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:calling us to do in our families.
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:So godly parents means we're
aligning with the Lord in this task.
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:A godly parent in that s- situation
declares that Jesus is Lord and
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:Savior of their, their lives.
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:Because if we don't have that
first foundational piece-
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:Speaker: Mm-hmm
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:… Speaker 2: our families are gonna
struggle, as Psalm 127:1 said, which
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:is, "Unless the Lord builds the house,
they labor in vain who build it."
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:When I've talked to women, you
know, how sad would it be to say
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:that we raised our children for 20
years, and we did it all in vain?
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:Mm.
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:That would be so heartbreaking.
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:But the Lord says, "No, I, I'm going to
give you my manual, my handy book of the
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:Bible," which really isn't about us, but
it's how to live in fellowship with Him
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:as He intended from the very beginning.
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:Speaker: Mm-hmm.
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:Speaker 2: And David will get into
that a little bit, but I think
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:that's, uh, some important things
to understand from the beginning.
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:Speaker: Uncle David, can you speak to the
people that are listening to this saying,
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:"I didn't have people pouring into me.
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:I wasn't discipled.
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:I didn't understand these Biblical truths.
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:Was I parenting in vain?
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:Is it too late to start now?"
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:Speaker 3: Well, the answer to that
would be no, it's not too late.
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:It's never too late.
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:I just have to say this carefully, but- I
don't know of a more important role that a
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:father could have in his children's lives,
and there's probably no one on the face
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:of the earth that could impact them the
way their own father could impact them.
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:So if you started with them really
early, or if you're just s- wanting
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:to do something now, get in the game.
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:Speaker: Hmm.
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:Speaker 3: Uh, get involved.
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:Um, be with your kids.
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:Look them in the eye.
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:Ask them the questions
that need to be asked.
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:Get off the superficial and into the
things that really matter in their life.
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:So no, I, I would say that
it's never, never too late.
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:God can bring anyone out of any given
situation, uh, and use it for His
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:glory, and He often does use it for
His glory in the worst of situations
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:'cause he, He just turns people's lives.
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:He can turn a father's life around
who's been neglecting his family
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:possibly, or He can obviously do
that with the child through, uh,
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:the father's ministry to them.
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:Speaker 2: And I think a mother's heart
and a father's heart- Mm-hmm … is to
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:never, ever give up on their children.
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:And I know that I've talked in other
s- situations, in other lessons, about
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:how at a certain point of life, your
prayer life becomes really, really
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:ignited, and I would say that's in your
older years when you see the absolute
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:importance of these things and you're
praying for the spiritual foundation
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:of your children and grandchildren.
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:Speaker: Mm-hmm.
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:Speaker 2: Um, and new marriages
being formed in your family.
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:You know, a lot of people say, "I don't
have a strong p- prayer life," but
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:I would say that if you're following
the Lord, you will- Mm-hmm … if
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:you, uh- Have a heart for your family.
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:And there's a verse from First, uh, 3
John 4 that says, "I have no greater
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:motivation than this, than to hear
that my children walk in the truth."
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:That will be no more true than when
you're older and you've seen how
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:a lot of things have played out.
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:And we don't want to live with regret,
but we don't feel like it's all on us.
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:We do our best.
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:We do our best, and we trust
the Lord with the rest.
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:And we also know that our children have
a responsibility in these things, too.
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:Speaker: I really like how you
clarify that idea in the mom study,
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:that as parents we're called to
evangelize and edify, and God's
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:part is to save and to sanctify.
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:And when we realize that, we,
we can be faithful and diligent,
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:but the Lord's drawing him.
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:He's faithful to draw our children.
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:And with that, Uncle David, will you
share the bridge gospel illustration
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:that I've seen you share m- many
times, and I know you're just
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:You always have this ready- Mm … for
wherever the Lord would give you an
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:opportunity, you're ready to proclaim
Jesus Christ as the only answer.
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:Speaker 3: This is the foundation that
I think the Lord is, I know the Lord is
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:talking about in 1 Corinthians 3:11 where
He says, "There's no foundation other than
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:which is laid, which is Jesus Christ."
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:And so the Gospel is the foundation
of my life, it's the foundation of
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:my family, it's the foundation of
my marriage, it's the foundation
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:of everything I have and hope for.
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:There's many ways to, to
share the Gospel with people.
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:Um, this was a way that I was taught
how to do it about 50 years ago.
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:Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
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:Speaker 3: I always loved it
because it kind of takes the Bible,
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:and it starts you in Genesis, and
it finishes you in Revelation.
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:And it's a kind of a summary
of what the Bible is all about.
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:And of course, the Old Testament
points to Jesus, the New
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:Testament points back at Him.
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:It's all about Jesus Christ.
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:If you miss that, you can memorize that
all the kings in the Old Testament, you
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:can know all the a- apostles in the New
Testament, you can know a whole bunch
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:of facts, but if you miss that Jesus
Christ is who He is, you missed it.
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:So it starts out with Genesis
1:27, where he says, "God
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:created man in His own image.
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:In His own image He created them.
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:Male and female He created them."
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:Right there- We see that God created
humans, men and women, in his own image.
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:We are different than any
other part of God's creation.
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:We're, we're, we were created
to have a relationship with God.
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:If you look at Genesis 1 and 2,
you see God is walking and talking
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:with Adam and Eve in the garden.
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:They had a relationship.
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:They knew his voice.
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:He knew their voice.
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:They had a relationship.
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:They're different.
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:They were different than
trees and plants and animals.
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:All of God's creation is wonderful,
but people are very, very unique
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:because of the way God created them.
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:But then, obviously, problems began
in Genesis chapter 3, and there's a
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:universal truth in Isaiah 59:2 which
says, "But your iniquities have caused
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:a separation between you and your
God, and your sins have hidden his
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:face from you, so he no longer hears."
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:Well, uh-oh, what happened
to my relationship?
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:It- it's, it's been severed.
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:It's been severed by something
called iniquity or sin, and God
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:will not even … If I, if I try
to talk to him, he turns his face.
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:Well, that's a picture
of a broken relationship.
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:So now I really have to get specific about
what really is my problem, and it starts
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:in Romans 3:23, "For all have sinned
and fall short of the glory of God."
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:So I'm a sinner according to the
Bible, not accord- Some people
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:won't admit that they're a sinner,
but I say, "God, you're right.
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:I am a sinner, for all have sinned
and fall short of the glory of God."
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:There's no one on the face of
this earth who is not a sinner.
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:So then the next question is,
well, what does sin result in?
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:"For the wages," in Romans 6:23
it says, "For the wages of sin
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:is death, but the gift of God is
eternal life through Christ Jesus."
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:What is the result of my sin?
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:I like to, the focus on the word wage.
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:Well, when you get a wage,
you've earned something.
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:You deserve something.
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:I deserve to die because of my sin.
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:That's the wage that I've earned.
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:Well, that's getting
pretty negative, isn't it?
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:It's, uh, I'm a sinner,
and now I'm gonna die.
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:And then the next thing that's even
worse is, what happens after I die?
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:In Hebrews 9:27, it says, "Inasmuch
as it is appointed for men to die
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:once, after this comes judgment."
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:Well, I'm going to be judged and condemned
for everything I've ever done wrong for
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:all of eternity in a place called hell.
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:That is bad news.
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:But you know, I really have to, anyone
really needs to focus on that because
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:if you don't understand your problem,
you'll never find the solution.
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:So, so that's my problem.
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:I'm a sinner, I'm gonna die,
and I'm gonna be condemned.
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:But now God has a response to that.
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:John 5:24, he says, "Truly, truly…"
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:Anytime he says truly,
truly, pay attention.
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:"Truly, truly, I say to you, he
who hears my word and believes
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:Him who sent me has eternal life.
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:He does not come into judgment,
but is passed from death to life."
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:So basically, God, right there,
says three things: eternal life, no
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:judgment, passed from death to life.
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:He's addressed my problem
But you have to believe.
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:So how do I get from where I am
over here with my problem to over
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:here with, with how God responds
to my problem in John 5:24?
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:Well, a lot of people got a lot
of different ideas about that, and
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:we need to take the next passage
of scripture is Ephesians 2:8-9.
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:"For by grace you have
been saved through faith.
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:It's a gift of God, not as a result
of works, lest anyone should boast."
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:So it's by grace.
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:Grace is undeserved favor.
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:Okay, I already know what I deserve.
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:Please don't give me that.
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:I need God's grace through faith.
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:Okay, faith.
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:What's faith?
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:Well, faith is, I believe, and, uh,
there's a lot of good definitions.
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:Hebrews 1, uh, 11:6 is really
a good one, but, and 11:1 too.
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:But nevertheless, faith is
confidence properly placed.
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:Who am I depending on?
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:Who am I counting on?
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:And whoever you put your faith in, it
better be in the right place because
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:it, there's only one way you can be
saved, and that is really brought out
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:by the next verse, which is John 14:6.
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:"Jesus said to them, 'I am the
way, the truth, and the life.
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:No one comes to the
Father but through me.'"
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:So you need to put your faith
in Jesus Christ because He's
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:the only one able to save you.
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:He's the only one able to deliver you
from your sin and forgive your sin.
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:So that brings us into our next
verse, which is 1 Peter 3:18.
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:"But Christ died for sins once for
all, the righteous for the unrighteous,
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:that he might bring us to God,
because he was put to death in the
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:flesh but made alive in the Spirit."
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:That passage of scripture is so
powerful 'cause it says so much.
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:The righteous Jesus Christ in my place
for the unrighteous, me, the sinner who
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:deserves to die and to be condemned.
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:He went to the cross in order that
He might take me from that position
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:across that sin chasm that, that's been
e- that, that e- that exists because
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:of my broken relationship with God,
and makes me have hope for salvation.
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:And the reason that I have hope for
salvation is because He rose from
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:the dead, and that's the power.
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:You, you put your faith in
somebody who won't let you down.
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:So Jesus, if He didn't rise from the dead,
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:we're kinda stuck.
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:But he did.
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:He's got power over life.
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:He's got power over death.
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:He has the power to forgive sin.
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:The next verse that I, that
I, that comes in the, in the
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:illustration is Romans 10:9.
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:"If we confess with our mouth that
Jesus Christ is Lord, and we believe
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:in our hearts that God raised him
from the dead, you will be saved."
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:S- so what do I need?
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:I need to confess and I need to believe.
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:Confess simply means, "God, you're right."
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:I'm a sinner.
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:I was created to have a relationship
with you, but you, but I fell,
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:and I have a sin problem.
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:You're right, and that's gonna cause
me to die and eventually be condemned.
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:But I know what you said over here.
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:You told me that I could have eternal
life and I could pass from death to life,
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:and that there would be no judgment.
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:So yes, thank you.
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:You're right.
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:You're right.
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:I agree with you, and it's by faith and
through, through, through your grace
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:that I could possibly hope for salvation.
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:So I confess it with my mouth
and I believe it in my heart.
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:Now, believe is much more
than just knowing something.
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:Believe is acting upon what I say is true.
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:So if there's sin in my life that I'm
aware of and I need to start working on,
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:because I need to work on it for the rest
of my life, but nevertheless, I work on
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:the things that God wants me to work on
so I can become more and more like Jesus.
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:And that is this process that we have
to get involved in, uh, right away.
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:And he will deliver us, and that's
the place, and that's the real belief.
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:And, you know, the Bible talks a
lot about repentance, and you could
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:almost use believe and repentance
hand-in-hand in that situation.
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:So then, I'm almost done, uh,
then you come to 1 John 5:11-12.
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:"And this is the testimony, that
God has given us eternal life.
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:This life is in his Son.
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:He who has the Son has life.
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:He who does not have the Son
of God does not have life."
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:So you either have it or you don't.
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:I, I like to, make this verse cause a
crisis in someone's life because you're
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:not, "Well, maybe I'm a Christian," or, "I
think I'm getting there," or, "I'm," you
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:know, "I'm kinda halfway in the middle."
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:No.
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:You're, you're not halfway anywhere.
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:You're either perfectly lost or
you're perfectly saved, depending
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:on what you have done with Jesus.
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:Have you humbled yourself?
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:Have you expressed your faith and your
need of him to be your savior and Lord?
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:If you've done that, you have Christ.
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:If you haven't done that, you don't have
Christ, and you're stuck over here with
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:your sin, the death that that will bring,
and the condemnation that that will bring.
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:So it's either one or the other.
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:The last verse is, I started in
Genesis, I'm finishing in Revelation.
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:Revelation 3:20, where Jesus says,
"Behold, I stand at the door and knock.
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:If anyone hears my voice and opens
the door, I will come in to him
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:and dine with him, and he with me."
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:Now, what's that?
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:That's a picture.
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:That's a picture of a relationship
Because God is sitting at a table with
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:you, dining with you, back and forth.
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:He's not turning his face
from you so he doesn't hear.
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:He's looking right at you.
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:He's talking with you.
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:You have a restored relationship.
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:So Jesus Christ has repaired what we
lost in Isaiah 59:2, that we, where that
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:relationship was broken, Jesus put it back
together so we have the Genesis 1:27 thing
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:again, where we have the, we were created
to have a relationship with God, and Jesus
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:Christ has made that possible through his
des- death, resurrection on the cross.
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:And so really we have now three
things that we could possibly do.
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:The first thing we can do is
say, "That's kind of stupid.
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:I reject that."
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:"Well, I don't think it's stupid.
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:I think I should think
about it, but not right now.
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:I'll just put it off."
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:Really, the first two are one and the
same, because you either have Christ or
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:you don't, and if you do either one of
those things, you do not have Christ.
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:Or you can repent.
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:You can turn from your sin.
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:You can put your trust and hope in Jesus
Christ alone, and he will be your savior.
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:So what are you gonna do with that?
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:Are you gonna come to Christ?
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:Are you going to humble yourself
and embrace your savior?
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:So that would be the foundation of
everything that we, that Entrusted
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:is about, that parenting is about,
is, that your marriage is about.
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:All these things are built on the
foundation of the gospel message.
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:And that's, like I said,
it's not the only way.
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:It's just one way of presenting
what the Bible has to say
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:about, uh, how to be saved.
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:Speaker: Mm-hmm.
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:Such a fantastic summary of the heart of
God to restore our relationship with him.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:That he is a God that dwells
and walks with his people,
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:would you close this lesson in prayer-
Mm-hmm … for the parent that's sitting
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:here listening and saying, "I need that"?
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:Speaker 3: Heavenly Father, uh, Lord,
if, uh, someone is listening to this-
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:And has not come to know Jesus Christ.
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:Father, it's not my words, it's your word.
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:Your word is living and active.
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:It's sharper than any two-edged sword.
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:It pierces between joint and marrow.
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:It's able to judge the thoughts
and intentions of the heart.
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:Father, I pray that you would open
people's eyes, that they would
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:see who Jesus Christ is, and they
would see and understand their
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:need for him, and they would simply
reach out and say, "Lord, save me.
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:I believe in you.
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:I trust you.
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:I want you to be a part of my life.
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:I want you to be my life, my hope."
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:So Lord, thank you, uh, for the work that
you're going to do in each person's life.
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:Father, I thank you that you are
sovereign God, and I pray and…
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:that you would use, um, maybe even
this little simple gospel presentation
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:to save someone's life, and it's
in your for the power to do that.
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:Speaker 69: Next week, I'll be releasing
an interview I did with Chris McKenna
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intimidated, , or defeated as you've
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:thought about technology and how to
protect your kids, Chris is the man
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:He's written a new book Five Habits
of the Tech-Ready Family: Raising
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is phenomenal, and I was honored to sit
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:For helping us walk in this area of
life victoriously We're gonna be having
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:a giveaway so we can help promote the
wisdom and clarity from his latest book
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:make sure you stay tuned for
those details, both on our
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on The Dwelling Place podcast.
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:And speaking of The Dwelling Place,
as you're heading into summer, I
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to stay faithful in God's Word
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Place could help you do just that
